I May Be Wrong…!



Life is full of mystery. Till now I don’t know why I purchased this domain and why I created this blog. But I learned a Lot. Admired by the world of blogosphere I started my journey as an enthusiast blogger. Later I came to know my empty mind don’t have anything to serve for this blogosphere. I may be wrong. Even after setting the topic I am still thinking what to write. This is what I am…!

What is the knowledge we looking for?

My dad always used to say knowledge is wealth and you should learn for knowledge.  I am an average rank holder and good learner during my school days. But I managed to pass the entire subject. I completed my college in the reputed intuition. Even the course I took was good. I completed my graduation with first class. I gained knowledge.

Don’t dream now me as a successor of life at present. I am not.

Still now I am confused what knowledge is meant for and what kind of knowledge I gained. I want to know whether the knowledge meant for gathering information about the things or knowing the ways of earning wealth.

Life is the major transport which drops you in the place where you don’t want to get down. I may be wrong that I chose the wrong transport. I educated in life science and now working with computers. Still wondered why I gave up my educated knowledge to the computer for my survival.

Still confused why knowledge on things is needed when it is not able take care of our survival?

I came up from my college nest as like a small bird comes out of its nest with lot of expectations. But I soon face the hurting of expectations.  Started my career growth as a medical representative and now standing as a web designer. I had a vast experience in the game of career snake and ladder. Unfortunately I faced lots of snakes than the ladders.

Is this the fault with our education system or due to giving more employment opportunity for selected fields?
Sometimes I used to think why only the cost of essential things getting higher then rate of my essential income.

I am exploring what I missed in myself? I may be wrong. Who knows this wrong path will take me to the treasure.

Hope for the best in the coming 2013.

May be bore for you. It’s the law of nature - the other people’s life always seems to be bore for us than ours…!

Bonding of Soul = Marriage…!



Bonding of two soul is said to be marriage even it is Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage.

Mangalyam tantunanena mama jeevana hetuna: kanthe badhnami subhage twam jeeva sarada satam

Which Means - While the groom ties three knots, the pundit chants this sloka which means; “This is a sacred thread. This is essential for my long life. I tie this around your neck O maiden having many auspicious attributes. May you live happily for a hundred years (with me).” (- Hinduism)

“So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate." (Bible – Matthew 19:6)

"And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves that you may live in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between you; Verily, in that are signs for people who reflect." (Quran 30:21)

The above Religious quotes clearly mention Marriage is to unite two souls.

This article is about Arranged Marriage and Love Marriage…!

What is Arranged Marriage?...

Arranged Marriage play a vital role in Indian tradition. Here match making is done by the parents. Parents will look for correct match for their children. And their children will get married to the match they have selected.

In Arranged Marriage parents will look for their children match with in their Relations, Caste, Community, etc…

What is Love Marriage?...

Love Marriage is the match making made by the children itself. Here the children will look for their match irrespective of Community, Caste, Religion etc…

Arranged Marriage Vs Love Marriage...

Some will think Arranged Marriage is best, While others think Love Marriage is best. But what is the reality?...

Modern youngsters believe Love Marriage is best and they believe it will bring a change to the inequalities in our society. They also thinking there is lot of possibilities for Divorces in Arranged Marriage.

Traditional parents will consider Arranged Marriage is best and they believe it will keep their traditions and culture. They think Modern youngsters are spoiling their traditions and culture.

Actually for every successful Marriage to keep the Bond strong, it should be the Love that never Ends, Trust that never Fades.

Whether it is an Arranged Marriage or Love Marriage, the secret which keep the relationship everlasting is the understanding between the couples, Love between them and their Trust over each other.

It’s a myth; Divorces are more common only among Arranged Marriage. There are lots of divorce cases in the court for the couples who have undergone Love Marriage.

In this current world Lust is mostly misinterpreted as Love. These kinds of Love Marriages will not stand for long. So Youngsters should aware of the difference between the Lust and Love, In order to have an everlasting Relationship. This will pay way for a successful love marriage.

For successful arranged Marriage parents have to analyze whether their children is having anyone in their mind. If not they have to find the match according to their children expectations.

Conclusion:

As per My point of view for every successful Marriage it not a debate of Arranged Marriage or Love Marriage. Successful marriage is a bonding of two souls with Understanding, Love and Trust…!

This article specially written for www.facebook.com/LoveYaArrange and www.indiblogger.in contest...!

Ramayan


எல்லோரும் ராமன் ஆக இருந்து விட்டால் ராமாயணம் எதற்கு ?...

Old Age Home..!


பத்து மாதம் சுமந்து பெற்ற பந்தம்

இன்று எனக்கு இல்லை சொந்தம்

நான் முதியோர் இல்லத்தில்...!

Dowry...!


கசாப்பு கடை ஆடுகளாய் பெண்கள்

வரதட்சனை கொடுமை....!

Human An Animal...!


Human came from Animal as per Evolution. But am not seeing any differences between modern days Human and Animal now days. We are said to be Human, that we know differences between good and bad and superior of all the Living things, Simply in the sense Human are the one who should have humanity which makes the difference between Us and Animal.

I don't have rights to say about others. So for all am using Myself as an example.

1.Is Human are fully Human?...


2.Humanity still exists?...

3.Are Evolution  is going back?...

I am in doubt regarding My answer towards human a reality, because the way I feel good on me for some aspects, I feel bad on me for some other aspects. In My life i saw a blend of Human and Beast in Myself. When thinking of Myself, My family etc.. I tend to be a Human, But considering the benefit of others I tend to be a Beast sometimes.

     -Spending money for friends and party -But not for the poor who ask for food

     -Spending time for enjoyment -Not for the necessity, etc...

In those situation I saw a Beast in me. So as a Human for me Human are not fully Human.

 - Humanity is totally a mystery. If something happen for My loved or dear ones Humanity has its presence there naturally. But if it happen for a stranger I can feel their suffering but not involving Myself in helping them. I feel shame on Myself for that. Hope I will change Myself in My future days to come. For Me Humanity exist up to a certain level.. For me to become more Human I have to kill the beast in Myself. Humanity exists everywhere like a Rice in a ton of Sand.


  - For Me Evolution is a cycle. So it may go back but not as Human to Animal. It may be in terms of culture and tradition. Like Naturalist --> Modern Human --> Naturalist.

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