Bonding
of two soul is said to be marriage even it is Love Marriage or Arranged
Marriage.
Mangalyam tantunanena
mama jeevana hetuna: kanthe badhnami subhage twam jeeva sarada satam
Which Means - While the groom ties three knots, the pundit
chants this sloka which means; “This is a sacred thread. This is essential for
my long life. I tie this around your neck O maiden having many auspicious
attributes. May you live happily for a hundred years (with me).” (- Hinduism)
“So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has
joined together, let man not separate." (Bible – Matthew 19:6)
"And among His signs is that He created for you mates
from among yourselves that you may live in tranquility with them, and He has
put love and mercy between you; Verily, in that are signs for people who
reflect." (Quran 30:21)
The above Religious quotes clearly mention Marriage is to
unite two souls.
This article is about Arranged Marriage and Love Marriage…!
What is Arranged Marriage?...
Arranged Marriage play a vital role in Indian tradition.
Here match making is done by the parents. Parents will look for correct match
for their children. And their children will get married to the match they have
selected.
In Arranged Marriage parents will look for their children match
with in their Relations, Caste, Community, etc…
What is Love Marriage?...
Love Marriage is the match making made by the children
itself. Here the children will look for their match irrespective of Community, Caste,
Religion etc…
Arranged Marriage Vs Love Marriage...
Some will think Arranged Marriage is best, While others
think Love Marriage is best. But what is the reality?...
Modern youngsters believe Love Marriage is best and they
believe it will bring a change to the inequalities in our society. They also
thinking there is lot of possibilities for Divorces in Arranged Marriage.
Traditional parents will consider Arranged Marriage is best
and they believe it will keep their traditions and culture. They think Modern
youngsters are spoiling their traditions and culture.
Actually for every successful Marriage to keep the Bond
strong, it should be the Love that never Ends, Trust that never Fades.
Whether it is an Arranged Marriage or Love Marriage, the
secret which keep the relationship everlasting is the understanding between the
couples, Love between them and their Trust over each other.
It’s a myth; Divorces are more common only among Arranged
Marriage. There are lots of divorce cases in the court for the couples who have
undergone Love Marriage.
In this current world Lust is mostly misinterpreted as Love.
These kinds of Love Marriages will not stand for long. So Youngsters should
aware of the difference between the Lust and Love, In order to have an
everlasting Relationship. This will pay way for a successful love marriage.
For successful arranged Marriage parents have to analyze
whether their children is having anyone in their mind. If not they have to find
the match according to their children expectations.
Conclusion:
As per My point of view for every successful Marriage it not
a debate of Arranged Marriage or Love Marriage. Successful marriage is a
bonding of two souls with Understanding, Love and Trust…!
