Bonding of Soul = Marriage…!

Bonding of two soul is said to be marriage even it is Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage.

Mangalyam tantunanena mama jeevana hetuna: kanthe badhnami subhage twam jeeva sarada satam

Which Means - While the groom ties three knots, the pundit chants this sloka which means; “This is a sacred thread. This is essential for my long life. I tie this around your neck O maiden having many auspicious attributes. May you live happily for a hundred years (with me).” (- Hinduism)

“So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate." (Bible – Matthew 19:6)

"And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves that you may live in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between you; Verily, in that are signs for people who reflect." (Quran 30:21)

The above Religious quotes clearly mention Marriage is to unite two souls.

This article is about Arranged Marriage and Love Marriage…!

What is Arranged Marriage?...

Arranged Marriage play a vital role in Indian tradition. Here match making is done by the parents. Parents will look for correct match for their children. And their children will get married to the match they have selected.

In Arranged Marriage parents will look for their children match with in their Relations, Caste, Community, etc…

What is Love Marriage?...

Love Marriage is the match making made by the children itself. Here the children will look for their match irrespective of Community, Caste, Religion etc…

Arranged Marriage Vs Love Marriage...

Some will think Arranged Marriage is best, While others think Love Marriage is best. But what is the reality?...

Modern youngsters believe Love Marriage is best and they believe it will bring a change to the inequalities in our society. They also thinking there is lot of possibilities for Divorces in Arranged Marriage.

Traditional parents will consider Arranged Marriage is best and they believe it will keep their traditions and culture. They think Modern youngsters are spoiling their traditions and culture.

Actually for every successful Marriage to keep the Bond strong, it should be the Love that never Ends, Trust that never Fades.

Whether it is an Arranged Marriage or Love Marriage, the secret which keep the relationship everlasting is the understanding between the couples, Love between them and their Trust over each other.

It’s a myth; Divorces are more common only among Arranged Marriage. There are lots of divorce cases in the court for the couples who have undergone Love Marriage.

In this current world Lust is mostly misinterpreted as Love. These kinds of Love Marriages will not stand for long. So Youngsters should aware of the difference between the Lust and Love, In order to have an everlasting Relationship. This will pay way for a successful love marriage.

For successful arranged Marriage parents have to analyze whether their children is having anyone in their mind. If not they have to find the match according to their children expectations.


As per My point of view for every successful Marriage it not a debate of Arranged Marriage or Love Marriage. Successful marriage is a bonding of two souls with Understanding, Love and Trust…!

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